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Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 12:34 am
by Healer379
Haha:)
This thread is awesome.

I love arguing;) thought I was an INTP a while back, but I am definitely Fi Dom.

"Arguing" has a negative ring to it, which is completely not the case when I disagree with somebody's opinion.

I appreciate the tackling of an idea, sharing, and frequently battling with knowledge until a new, clearer understanding of the idea is born, right there in front of me.

Some of my closest friends became so because we "argued":)

I like autonomy. I need it, and I appreciate when others have it and provide that in a relationship.

I like brains:) I like happy, deep, kind, honest, fun people. I have loved an ENTJ, INTJ, and believe it or not ESFJ:)

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 12:48 am
by Entity
I'm not fond of arguing because having two NT brothers to argue against is tiring. I love discussions, and saying what I believe, but arguments tend to go too far and get me or someone else angry.

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 1:22 am
by potatotoro
I hate arguing.i sometimes start singing "why can't we be friends" in the middle of two people arguing lol it just makes them more mad.

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 1:28 am
by Entity
I silently wait for multiple people to argue loudly so I can shout I WILL TAKE IT! I WILL TAKE THE RING TO MORDOR!

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 1:46 am
by potatotoro
thats a good one. xD

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2015 8:36 pm
by Healer379
Lol. Excellent line Entity:):)

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2018 10:58 pm
by DAVIE
I am an INFP and have been with my INFJ missus for 5 years now. It works very well. No arguments. Plenty of understanding. Honestly it works.

Re: Who do You fall in love with?

Posted: Sun Mar 18, 2018 1:51 am
by synapser
Tuevon wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2015 11:14 am
"It is the first thought that you have that defines what you've been taught, but it's the second thought that defines your character."
Love that quote. I've not known all my lovers mbti type. I really only loved 3 or 4 of them anyway.

I fall for people who are kind and patient with my abundant frustrations with the way the world is. Intelligence or at least the ability to learn about themselves and recognize change is essential too.

Arguing turns me off, but discussion and insight turns me on. It's a fine line and usually just takes some personal understanding about communication styles to sort out. Had some trouble with the INTJ I fell for, but I think that was mostly because she stopped talking to me and I started having increasingly diseased thoughts.